The Hockey Resource -This is disgusting (you must watch) and shows why Hockey could disappear for lack of referees

We posted an article a couple of weeks ago about the shortage of referees, and then today, we saw something that disgusted us about the game of Hockey. (courtesy of the Hockey Think Tank.) https://youtu.be/OIfjW3pDieI My son and I have convened many tournaments for many years, and you can’t believe how many times we have needed to call the police on parents.
 
From a newsletter we posted a couple of weeks ago, Massachusetts Hockey believes Hockey may not survive the lack of future referees. As you may know, many referees have either not returned this season or left since the start.
 
While we are still investigating and trying to determine the basis, our initial investigation has determined that the most significant reason cited is the abuse they receive from coaches, parents, and players. The constant harassment over calls regarding their split-second decisions on the ice has taken its toll. Massachusetts Hockey is down 900 officials from the pre-COVID season numbers to now.

Since this season started, we have already experienced several troubling incidents, including a referee needing a police escort after an 8U game, a young female referee quitting in the middle of a set of games due to parent harassment, a parent coming on the ice trying to get at a referee. A parent enters the scorer’s box to berate a player on the other team for a penalty against her child. These are just a few examples of what is going on every weekend.

The referee pool is dwindling, and we need to take steps positively to reverse this. Our officials are everyday people like our parents, who have real jobs but try to work a side job to help our kids play a game, earn a little extra income and give back to the game. It would appear that many people, for whatever reason, have lost this understanding and somehow believe that our officials need to be at the same level as what they see on TV at the college or NHL level.

​Just as a player will turn a puck over or a coach will make a wrong decision during a game, we realize that our officials can miss calls that may or may not impact a game. That said – this does not give anyone (parents, players, coaches) the right to abuse them. Talk to your children about respecting the referees. Players should not be arguing every call against their team. Unfortunately, this is what is happening far too often and is unacceptable.

Massachusetts Hockey and USA Hockey have a Zero Tolerance Policy for abuse of officials. If someone is found abusing officials, including a player, coach or parent, they will be subject to discipline, including suspension and/or being banned from attending future games. Following the Massachusetts Hockey Abuse of Officials (Zero Tolerance) Policy, any coach or player receiving an abuse of official game misconduct penalty is subject to an additional game suspension due to any game misconduct penalty for a total of two games. Furthermore, suppose a coach or player receives a second game misconduct penalty under Playing Rule 601 during the same season. In that case, the coach or player will receive an additional two-game suspension for three games. In addition, parents and spectators are subject to discipline as well. Holding discipline hearings for parents is the last thing we want to do.

Again, we ask you to practice patience and good judgment. The children are all watching us and following our example. We all need to make a better effort to respect the officials and keep them working.
 
Lastly, if you or someone you know is interested in becoming an official, please get in touch with the local Hockey Association, as all are desperate for more refs.